A wise friend of mine recently said that before Christmas, it's best to sit down with your husband and each share your expectations and make a plan. So, a few nights ago, we snuggled into the couch and we had our little Christmas meeting. I'm a huge fan of this Christmas planning time. I think it avoids so much confusion and possible conflict.
When we sat down, we had just about zero Christmas shopping done and the month was flying by. Together we decided that I'd leave early on a Saturday morning and tackle it, while he stayed home with the kids.
This morning I left the house alone, and just about 4 hours later, I came home with ALL the shopping done! NEVER EVER underestimate what a mom can do when she has a coffee in hand and a few hours alone! Zoom...zoom...zoom! When you're used to having kids hanging all over you, while still taking on the world, it's like you actually have real-life super powers when you go out by yourself. You fly through the store, crossing items off your list, without feeling like you might lose a kid if you look away. You let the lady behind you go first, just because it feels like the best day ever and you sometimes talk to yourself, because hey- you're used to talking all the time. Oops.
Today I wanted to high five any Mom out there in the store who had that undeniable look of freedom all over her face. It was like we were friends, like they just knew that I had a minivan filled with carseats, but that I was ALONE. You know it's that smile you share with another Mom when you just know she has weird stuff in her purse, just like you do. And the Moms out on a Saturday finishing shopping with kids well----I wished I could have bought them all coffee. Most years that's me. Actually, most years I've had to take nursing breaks out in the parking lot and hide presents in the cart, hoping the kids didn't see. You do what you do, you rock it to the best of your ability and you survive. I guess if we didn't have those less than ideal days, then we wouldn't appreciate the easier ones so much.
So, cheers to all the procrastinators, to the folks who haven't started shopping yet and to the ones who just finished.
Wrapping this up with a photo from today. I'd like to call this one "Bathroom Humor". 'Nuf said.
Saturday, December 20, 2014
Friday, December 19, 2014
Christmas Break Day 1.
The kids slept in today until almost 8am, which is pretty unusual for them. While they slept, I organized our junk drawer while I had my coffee. You know that drawer with all the pens, scissors, tape, paperclips and 1 billion other things that get thrown in there? Yeah, I should have taken a "before" picture because it was an absolute disaster. But, not anymore! It's amazing how good it feels to tackle a little project that you've been putting off for weeks, or even months- which was the case for that drawer. The sad news is that the kids were already getting stuff out of it this afternoon and it's looking like it might stay organized for like......1 day. Oh well, it was pretty for a morning.
After the kids woke up, they had breakfast and then I helped them do a little "school", which is really just a few worksheets---please don't think we're super hard core, since we definitely are not. I guess you can just say that I'm that Mom---the one who says we're going to do a little schoolwork each day on Christmas break. It went fast and well, as you'd expect it to, when you tell your kids that they're about to go decorate cookies with their cousins after they finish up.
My sister might be finding sprinkles around her house for the next year or two, but this time with them was so needed. I feel like life gets busy and we end up spending less time with our absolute favorite, core people. When we just had 1 kid each, sister Sally and I hung out multiple times a week. Now, it's just not that easy.
Today kids played, we visited and then we let our kids squirt frosting all over and use up entire containers of sprinkles. Memories were made for sure. Sometimes I just want to pinch myself when I think about how my kids actually have cousins to grow up along side of. I didn't have this when I was younger and I don't take one ounce of it for granted, nope not at all.
A morning of sprinkles, frosting, cookies and cousins. I'd say that Christmas break is off to a great start.
Thursday, December 18, 2014
With sleeping kids and a husband that's waiting to watch a movie with me, I'm sharing a quick little snippet today and joining in with Ali Edwards, while I continue to share a bit of our December story. Part of our story today includes my Paisley girl throwing up in the car after eating a hot dog from Costco and getting car sick.... darn it, she totally has inherited that from me. Another part of our story from today is a morning spent with sweet friends from church, eating cookies and drinking coffee. But, in between the morning with friends and the Costco trip that ended badly with the kids, what was most memorable today is that we welcomed winter break.
We welcomed it loudly and I couldn't be more excited to have all my kids home everyday. For the next couple weeks, I won't be rushing them to the car in the morning and I'm so looking forward to slower days, more time to be creative with them and do more of the things that we enjoy doing together, but never seem to have time for.
In the car line this afternoon, I queued up "Wizards in Winter" on my phone. As Judah hopped it, we blasted it loudly and drove off hootin' and hollerin'. Christmas break is here and we're ready!
So, for tonight, I'm done on the computer and I'm off to watch National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation with Jeremiah, while I fold laundry.
Happy Christmas break to you, if that's something that's relevant in your life right now. What was the best part of your day today?
A little throwback Thursday to wrap this up....
Exactly one year ago to the day. They were so small!
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Need some new Christmas music inspiration? Today we're listening to the Kutless album, "This is Christmas". Below is their version of "Oh Holy Night". It's a good one for sure.
I realized the other day that we hadn't cut out snowflakes yet this year, which almost sent me into a tizzy. One of my most vivid Decemeber memories from when I was little is making snowflakes with my Mom and sister and to think that I almost forgot....
So, this morning, with jammies still on, we got right to work. We started with regular paper grabbed from our printer and then quickly traded that in for coffee filters. The coffee filters are the way to go, in my opinion.
While we folded, flattened, folded, flattened and then cut out little chunks of paper, I reminded the kids that all snowflakes are different and that there isn't a right way to do this.
Most of our snowflakes turned out just as "normal" as they come, minus the Batman snowflake that Judah requested. In that moment, I was so thankful for easy to follow Youtube tutorials!